A Job that’s Meant for You

Advice + Inspiration, Uncategorized

Who do you seek out when you are going through a hard time?

What types of practices do you have in place when you are going through it?

When we feel pain, often times we try to avoid it. Drown it out by finding quick fixes that temporarily push out our thoughts. They keep coming back.

We can reach out to all of our friends and family and pray that they will never leave our side until we feel better, but even if they were to do this, in the end we will have to face being alone.

We must go through it to go through it.

Only we can make ourselves feel better. This is no one else’s job. It’s ours.

Question the actions you are taking when you are upset or things didn’t go the way you had planned:

Why am I doing this? Will this make me feel better in the long run or is this a quick fix?

What activities have brought me healing in the past?

It’s okay to feel the pain and hurt now. Take time to listen to yourself and your body. Re-find yourself. Take the time to take care of yourself because you are worthy.

Thanks for reading.

XO,

coco

How Can We Feel More Connected?

Advice + Inspiration, Uncategorized

Have you ever felt disconnected?

It’s a strange feeling, isn’t it?

Disconnect can take form in a number of ways. This disconnect can be from your authentic self or a disconnect from others.

Being curios to understand how feelings of disconnect occur, I did some research and have compiled a list of potential causes for feeling disconnected and a list of ways to minimize these feelings from my own experience and from what I have read.

I believe that whatever words stand out to you in these lists may be a sign or call to action. I know while doing research that I noticed that some things resonated with me more than others.

Potential Causes

FOMO caused by social media

Not being fully present in conversation

Doing things that don’t align with your goals

Worrying about yourself instead of helping others (yes, obviously you need to take care of yourself, but our purpose on earth is finding ways to serve others)

Not spending enough alone time

Spending too much alone time

Drug use

Chemical imbalances

Potential Solutions

Physical activity

Spending time in nature

Developing mindfulness practices

Paying attention to your emotions (don’t suppress)

Make future plans (events, girls night, etc.)

Talking to a stranger

Eating whole foods

Hugging someone

Writing

Volunteering

Laughing

Playing

Giving gratitude

Playing with a pet

Having a creative outlet

Putting your phone down and taking a break

 

These lists contain causes and solutions for both personal disconnection and disconnection from others.

Again, I think whichever activities resonated with you the most is what is most telling. 

We all crave to feel connected. It’s a human need!

I hope you find love & connection in your day today. Thanks!

 

Any things you do to feel connected? I would love to hear them.