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Finding Motivation on a Tuesday

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I don’t know why, but I feel like Tuesdays are always the hardest. Mondays are tough, but there’s something about a Tuesday. It’s usually the day that it hits me that, yes, it is the week and there’s all this work to be done!

If you’re on the same boat and are looking for a little pick me up-

Here’s a list of my favorite quotes and habits that boost my mood and keep me inspired on a Tuesday:

  1. Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and start getting excited about what could go right
  2. You do not just wake up and become a butterfly- growth is a process
  3. I really think the secret to being loved is to love, and the secret to being interesting is to be interested and the secret to having a friend is to be a friend
  4. you can.
  5. The best way to get something done is to simply begin
  6. You can only fail when you stop trying
  7. Be the person you want to have in your life
  8. Prove them wrong!
  9. Know this: you can start over each morning
  10. It’s a slow process, but quitting won’t speed it up
  11. If the plan doesn’t work, change the plan but never the goal
  12. Be your own inspiration
  13. Stop over-thinking and just do
  14. Give yourself more credit because you are doing great

I really believe that reading one quote in the morning that gives you energy or a push to get your day going is a good habit to form. I have several quotes saved in my camera roll (found on pinterest) that I look at in the morning, and if those don’t seem to motivate me on that given day I look for new ones.

Aside from reading inspiring quotes daily, I have developed a couple of new habits that have changed my quality of life significantly. You should definitely give them a try. Here’s how they have impacted me.

The first: Have more time in the morning for you.

There is no better feeling than waking up at the first alarm. This is definitely a hard task- I know- I used to be best friends with the snooze button. Now? instead of going back to bed, I sit on a chair and just breathe and think about the kind of morning and day I want to have. I don’t force myself to be productive right away, but instead allow myself to organize my thoughts. Once I feel like I’m ready to get some activity in I do some stretching and start the rest of my morning routine. It sounds so simple.. but it makes a huge difference. Those 5-10 minutes where I am totally undistracted and focused on myself change my entire outlook on the day. My attitude has changed and I am more at peace.

The second: Use Your Free-time Differently.

You might think “I don’t have free time”. The free time I’m talking about is the times in-between for example: the times during your commute, meal times, and if you’re a nerd like me the time you sit there waiting for class to start. So how do I use it? Learning. I used to feel insecure that I didn’t know anything outside of what I learned from class. I decided I would change that. How? I recently started listening to podcasts during commutes, reading before class starts, and now scroll through the news during meal times. I’m a very curious person and I am always eager to learn and if you’re someone like me or even if you’re not I think listening to podcasts and keeping your mind stimulated makes for a better day. For one, as humans we crave to be fed knowledge and so it makes you feel some kind of fulfillment and secondly, it can make for good conversation with your peers or coworkers.

 

2 Famous People You Should Know More About

I once heard this saying that “you can learn something new from everyone you meet”. It might not always be clear what… but so far this mindset has served me well in making new connections and finding deeper meaning in my interactions with others. While the people I will mention in this blog I may never meet, I think they hold great insights and wisdom that anyone anywhere can learn from.

The first…

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Oprah Winfrey! I regret saying this, but, until a few days ago, I thought Oprah was overrated. I know, shameful. I never took the time to learn about her and just assumed there was too much hype around her name..so wrong. If you don’t know much about Oprah, please, take these appropriate steps to get to know more.

  • Download the podcast-app and listen to her “SuperSoul Conversations” podcast in which she interviews several world-renowned spiritual individuals. I swear this podcast has changed my life (Learn more). At the beginning of every episode Oprah starts out by saying:

                         “I believe that the greatest gift you can give yourself is time”

and if that’s not the truth!

The second…

Marcus-Aurelius

Marcus Aurelius. A man and philosopher wise beyond his time.

Here are a few of his famous quotes:

“When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive – to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.”

“Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.”

“Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking.”

 

Obviously, you can do more to learn about Oprah & Aurelius, but I hope these links made your research easier. Thanks!

 

5 Songs to Listen to this Week

I’ve had the same five songs on repeat for days.

Here they are, categorized by what vibe or mood they give off.

 

Mood: Chill/Relaxed

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Song: slow down my thoughts – Zachary Knowles

 

Mood: Energized

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Song: Happier – Marshmello

 

Mood: Heart-Broken

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Song: Your Shirt – Chelsea Cutler

 

Mood: Boss Work-Out

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Song: Beast – Migos

 

Mood: I’m the sh**

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Song: Chun Swae – Nicki Manaj + Swae Lee

 

Disclaimer: I took these album covers off of google. They do not belong to me.

Let me know what you think or if these are already on your playlist!

Why These 4 Hairstyles of Mine are my Favorite

Am I the only one who changes my hair to signify a new chapter in my life? I don’t think I can count how many “new chapters” I’ve had but based on how many hairstyles I’ve had throughout the years.. I would say a lot- some that worked more than others. Here are a few of my favorite styles:

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This purple gave me life! So a little back story: I got my first job at a hair salon. You can imagine how flattered I was at 15 when one of the stylists asked me to model her work. I was convinced after getting this hairstyle that it was just the beginning of my modeling career! While this didn’t turn out to be true.. My hair picture ended up being printed as a poster and was hung at the front of the salon.

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Love this blonde so much! My sophmore year of college one of my close friends from high school started cosmetology school right next to my University’s campus. This is the first time she did my hair and I was in love. I decided here that I wanted to stay blonde forever.

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A few months after being a blondie, I decided it was time for a change. I wanted dark in my hair but wasn’t ready for a full transition. The change in hair color was actually a huge shock- it turned out much darker than i had expected, but i fell in love with the dimension and honestly I miss this hair.

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Had to go back to blonde. I love this style because even though you can see that my hair was a little grown out (it was dyed full blonde before), I received the most compliments on my hair when it was like this. And who doesn’t like a compliment from time to time? Especially on your hair!

 

 

 

 

 

 

What I learned in Two Weeks of Being Social Media-Free

First off I want to start out by saying I used to eat, sleep, breathe social media. My day would start and end by rotating through instagram, snapchat, facebook, twitter then back to instagram again. Any chance I had I was checking notifications or thinking of what to post next.

It never occured to me how much time I spent online. I feel like anyone who has social media can agree that once you start scrolling hours can go by and still you can still be endlessly entertained. Hours spent looking at memes to food posts, to cute animals and people and celebrity creeping.

One day I was out with a girlfriend and we asked this guy to follow us on instagram. Before we followed ourselves he warned us, “I don’t really use social media. “As I went to follow him back, I saw that he had like 5 posts. Thinking of how little time he probably spent online along with my father telling me that I should just get rid of social media all together I began thinking maybe I should give it a try.

A few weeks later, I called an old friend because I was having a horrible week. As I was talking to her, I remembered that she had deleted all of her social media a year ago due to a terrible break up. After hearing about her quality of life since deleting, I decided then and there it was time.

So what have I realized in two-weeks?

1. I was addicted to clicking on the apps

This might sound weird.. but hear me out. For a few days after deleting the apps I found myself subconsciously opening my phone and scrolling back and forth through my apps looking to click the apps. It wasn’t an intentional “I’m going to go on snapchat”. I was just addicted to clicking the apps and checking them without even realizing it!

2. People spend so much time scrolling through their feed

I began to notice my friends and people around me at restaurants, airports, cars, and stores mindlessly scrolling. Heads bowed while being consumed in this world called social media. I saw people flipping through apps with out realizing that people around them were trying to talk to them. I noticed my friends moods changing after seeing something on social media that upset them or made them feel jealous.

3. I am so much more in the moment

Yes, my conversations are so much better with others now. I am present! My mind feels clear not having to think about what everyone else is posting or who’s liking my pictures. ANDDD I have so much more freedom and did I mention time? quality of sleep?

4. It’s fun being mysterious

I don’t feel like I have to post my every move. I don’t care if others see if I’m having fun because I am and I’m the only person who can judge what that looks like. unnamed-1

Okay.. so confession time Lol

I re-downloaded instagram a couple of times during this social media-free thing. Once to check my messages (after like 3 days) and the other time to post a picture (on day 15).

When I was Checking messages I didn’t feel as guilty as when I posted. After posting I felt the old anxiety of constantly checking to see who and how many people liked my picture and realized I was back in this social media world rather than eating the food and enjoying the conversation with my friend (we were at a restaurant), so I deleted the post right away and felt a million times better.

If you haven’t tried going social media-free before I definitely suggest it even if you feel like you don’t use it often anyways. (I still have the accounts, but I  just don’t have the apps downloaded on my phone.) It can be hard at times especially if your friends use social media a lot (like mine) but it is definitely worth it!

A Week in California

A week in California

Tuesday-

Arrive at 12 noon

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Wednesday-

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Thursday-

 

Friday-

  • GIRLLLL let’s hike- we low-key died
  • Shopping on fashion Island
  • Let’s go out forealllll now- in Costa Mesa
  • Matt Steffanina– the dance god?!

 

 

Saturday-

  • Newport Beach!
  • Hollywood
  • 15 dollar massages wuuut
  • Let’s go out in OC again LOL- Bungalow? Duhhhh

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Sunday-

Last day RIP 😦

  • Santa Monica- Beach walk
  • r we alive
  • I’ll miss my best friend!

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